I had a date last night. Someone new. I was nervous but I found when I arrived he was twice as nervous as I, so it made it less stressful. Just two humans connecting over pizza and scrabble. Sharing point for point why we are unique and alike. Not too much pressure (well the scrabble was harsh–he kicked my butt–but then he’s an English teacher and says he’s only lost two games previously).
We found we had things in common (music) and things not in common (politics and olives), but the differences weren’t so harsh that we didn’t laugh and smile. I’m not fond of dating and the effort I’m making to get out and meet people is new for me. It’s an uncomfortable space—but I’m finding bits of joy here and there. Especially when I meet someone who can make me laugh from the belly.
Is it love? Too early to tell–and not really my primary objective. But I will see him again, and it will be good.
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Was there smooching?
I don’t kiss and tell….
Just kidding. No, no smooching. It was the first date afterall.
That sounds very promising. Gives me hope.
Sounds like fun! I haven’t played Scrabble in a good while.
Words and Pizza, doesn’t get much better than that.
kissy kissy! ha just kiddin’.
Sounds good to me. LOL Glad to hear that you had a good time. Plus, it is nice to go out with a man who has a brain. ROTFL
This was definitely a good move for you. Think you’ll stay in the area?
Awwww, that sounds really nice. I hope the next date goes even better!