Now that I’ve liberated myself from my toxic relationship, one thing I have to be careful about is expecting my closest friend to do the same. I can’t expect her to need and want the same things that I do and I must learn to trust her judgment when it comes to her love life.
So, I have to step back, let her live her life and make her own choices and trust her. I guess I just truly want her to be happy and if she can find that with him, then I’ll give her my best wishes. But if he continues to fuck with her head and make her miserable I’ll be forced to keep my bias against him.
And honestly, what’s good for me and right for me may not be right for her and I just have to accept that. And assure her, that I would NEVER cast her aside or let our friendship lapse just because I don’t agree with her choice. And I suppose if she is really going to try and make it work, I have to in a way give him a chance too. But dang, it’s really hard.
